I’m back again with more ridiculous mind changing! As Lee’s divorce gets closer to being complete I find myself wondering if perhaps we could get married earlier… maybe even before the baby is born.
I’ve revisited the idea of Sheffield Register Office since I discovered the location has changed and there are some beautiful surroundings that would make for nice photos. My Dad is a bit of a photographer himself so he could take some pictures after the ceremony and he and my Mum could be our two witnesses. I feel that would encompass my wanting to do it as intimately as possible while not leaving my parents out and securing some memories for the wall. Here’s my dilemma now. Is it just too tacky to be a pregnant bride? I do like the idea of a Christmas wedding, the children could both be there and I could have my figure back..however it would leave me just 6 weeks to get back into reasonable shape so would I rather be obviously pregnant or carrying residual baby weight? Not to mention how tired we’re likely to be at that stage. I think if we’re going to wait until the New Year we might as well just wait and do it in Vegas in March as planned but I just don’t know if I’m going to want to wait once Lee is divorced. As is right now it’s out of our hands but once we’re both free to remarry it will be difficult to put it off.
At the end of the day we want to be married, why wait if we don’t have to?
Over the next few weeks while we’re waiting for news I’ll be trawling through google images for inspiration but for the meantime.. here’s a peek inside my mind…